The divine secret of a successful relationship!

Understanding the basic nature of masculinity & femininity is the ideal foundation and the divine secret of a successful relationship.

Masculine's (perfect men) primary concern is about living life based on a purpose or mission; whereas feminine's (perfect women) primary concern is all about flow of love in relationship.

Masculine receives certainity from their actions; but feminine receives certainity through communication. As a result, feminine communicates more often in a way that might sounds ridiculous and meaningless to the masculine. This is because masculine's certainity is entirely based on actions and results. When there is a delay in communication, feminine feels uncertainity and that becomes the cause for clash in a relationship.

Irrespective of the gender, every individual is a mixture of both masculinity and femininity.

If you have a more masculine essence, you would, of course, enjoy staying home and playing with the kids, but, deep down, you are driven by a sense of mission. You may not know your mission, but unless you discover this deep purpose and live it fully, your life will feel empty at its core, even if your intimate relationship and family life are full of love. If people with masculine essences doesn't have the balls to pursue something ideal or worthy enough, they would rather watch a football game or cricket match or heroic action movies on TV than a love story.
Masculine's tendency is to stay energetic and motivated always in-order to succeed in their chosen mission through regular action.

If you have a more feminine essence, your professional life may be incredibly successful, but your core won't be fulfilled unless love is flowing fully in your family or intimate life.Feminine's tendency is to stay loved always through regular communication.

For the masculine; mission, competition, and putting it all on the line (indeed, facing death), are all forms of ecstasy Witness the masculine popularity of joining the armed forces, dangerous heroism, leadership, and sports playoffs.

But, for the feminine, the search for love touches the core.
Whether on soap operas, in love stories, or talking with friends
about relationships, listening or singing romantic songs or melodies, the desire for love is what appears in feminine forms of entertainment.

But also, there are men with more feminine characteristics than masculine & there are women with more masculine characteristics than feminine.This is the reason why some men give more priority to falling in relationship than pursuing or utilizing his passion or life purpose; and some women turnout to become great entrepreneurs, military officers, power lifting champions or athletes or movie stars.

However, we can't deny the nature of masculinity & femininity.
i.e; The "mission" or the search for freedom or living life with a purpose is the priority of the masculine, whereas the search for love or the flow of love in relationship is the priority of the feminine.
Successful relationships are built with a rock solid mutual understanding about each others masculinity and femininity. 

Those who can understand this nature of masculinity and femininity can maintain a wonderful and happy relationship throughout their life time! This is the divine secret and the backbone of any successful relationships.