Happiness is a conscious Choice
Happiness is a mind set. Its a state of mind. when things happen the way we desire, we naturally feel happiness. But if things won't workout the way we like, or something bad happens in our life, we tend to feel so much worried about the situation.
Many peoples think that the problems in our life, makes us unhappy. But in reality, it's our attitude towards the problem, that makes us unhappy. A problem is only a problem if we choose to see it as a problem. We must learn to be happy by making a conscious choice to be happy.
when something bad happens, which you don't like, ask yourself these question:
"I have two choices now:
to worry about the problem through out all day long
or
to learn the lesson from it, and be happy for the opportunity I've had with that problem"
It doesn't matter whether the problem is big or small, all that matters is how you choose to see it, your attitude towards the problem.
if you choose to see it as an opportunity to learn from, then that will make you happy.
So when you encounter with any problem next time remind yourself,
"I'm in total control of my life
I can consciously choose to be happy right now.
This problem is an opportunity for me to learn something very important, that will benefit me in the long term.
Count your blessings
Often, peoples forget the blessings they have. they always curse their fate and God because of the things that they don't have in life.they constantly worry about their own life by thinking that they are inadequate, incapable, talentless and so on..
And they belittle themselves by saying like this:
"I'm born to struggle like hell..
I will never become successful because of BAD LUCK...
My life sucks, Oh god,Why me..
I don't have any talents, My job is so bad to cope up with, I don't like to go there,
Why I am always unhappy, why I can't become rich, why I'm not able to do great things that others are doing,
my life is a waste.."
it goes on and on like this...
These are few thoughts that comes to the mind of many peoples when they are having problems.
But what we forget is to count our blessings. Everyone is unique. everyone of us have special talents and abilities that others don't possess.
we are unique in our own way of doing things, no one can do things as perfect as you do it.
we must be grateful for the gifts that we have.
Just relate your life with peoples who are blind, dump, deaf, handicapped, peoples who born without limbs, peoples who are struggling with incurable diseases like cancer and Aids, orphans, beggars, homeless peoples and so on...
when we think about them and their problems, we feel as if we are living in HEAVEN.
During hard times, instead of filling your head with negative thoughts, count your blessings that will makes you happy.
Always be grateful for the facts that:
you are alive
Be grateful for your HEART, it works 100,000+ times without even taking a break just for you
you can feel, touch, taste, smell, see and hear, you might be having all the senses
you have no abnormalities
you have unique talents which others don't have
be grateful for having your parents and family
be grateful for who you are
be grateful for having water, food and shelter for there are peoples who die because of thirst and hunger
be grateful for being healthy for there are peoples who die because of diseases and accidents
there are so many things you can be grateful for, that makes you HAPPY right now if you think about it
And remember that it's a CHOICE!
you have no abnormalities
you have unique talents which others don't have
be grateful for having your parents and family
be grateful for who you are
be grateful for having water, food and shelter for there are peoples who die because of thirst and hunger
be grateful for being healthy for there are peoples who die because of diseases and accidents
there are so many things you can be grateful for, that makes you HAPPY right now if you think about it
And remember that it's a CHOICE!
Have a direction in life
Know where you want to go and then go where you want to go.
In life, we must have a definite purpose to live. An ultimate dream worth fighting for. if you don't know what you want out of your life, then you are not truly living. You are just drifting towards death. Don't let somebody tell you what to do with your life or where you have to go in life.
You are the soul owner of your own life. When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen. When you are in pursuit of your dream, your heart will dance with joy and happiness which you've never felt before.
Everyday you wake up from your bed with enthusiasm and hope, because you've an ideal reason worth working for, that separates you from the rest of the crowd, and ultimately that will make you happy.You are working for your own dreams which you have always loved to do, While others are working for someone else's dream, you might be knowing what it's called as 'Rat race.'
I need not to explain about the happiness that you get from doing the things that you've always loved to do.
This is why having a direction in life is so much super important.
this is the only way to reach fulfillment.
This is the greatest way to be happy always.
The happiness that comes from living your dream life, the kind of life that you've always dreamed of, is incredible.
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You are the soul owner of your own life. When writing the story of your life, don't let anyone else hold the pen. When you are in pursuit of your dream, your heart will dance with joy and happiness which you've never felt before.
Everyday you wake up from your bed with enthusiasm and hope, because you've an ideal reason worth working for, that separates you from the rest of the crowd, and ultimately that will make you happy.You are working for your own dreams which you have always loved to do, While others are working for someone else's dream, you might be knowing what it's called as 'Rat race.'
I need not to explain about the happiness that you get from doing the things that you've always loved to do.
This is why having a direction in life is so much super important.
this is the only way to reach fulfillment.
This is the greatest way to be happy always.
The happiness that comes from living your dream life, the kind of life that you've always dreamed of, is incredible.
Thanks for taking your time to read this, hope it was useful to you. Please subscribe and give feedback or leave a comment below.
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