Loneliness usually creeps in to the mind of those who are slightly weak in making and maintaining relationships. Loneliness may take away the feelings of being loved by others and it forces a person to live a closed life from the society.
But on a positive side, loneliness helps a person to get to know himself or herself more - The way he or she thinks and do things.
If we study the life stories of great peoples, most of them have had a loner type personality. This provided them the opportunity to introspect more and more until they get to know who they are and what they wanted to do with their lives.
Eventually it made them great human beings.
In other words; loneliness can be a blessing, if you've the right attitude to choose so.
Here are three powerful methods to deal with loneliness:
1. Always have exciting life goals!
One of the best antidote to loneliness is to simply involve in doing things that are really exciting. Find your passion or something you really love to do. Set goals that really really makes you happy. Start now and then get excited about doing it.
It doesn't matter whether your goal is too small or too big or whatever, if it gets you excited and let your heart dance, then be sure that's what you're born to do.
Go through the process of accomplishing your goals and enjoy all the rewards you receive!
Even if you don't know what you want, simply look at those moments where you’re feeling blissful, moments when time just flies by, when you really feel lit up, when you really feel inspired. Think about, “Where have I been most inspired? Where have I really been happy?” Even if it was a few moments in your life, those are doorways showing you what your life-goal is about.
You should always be excited about something positive in life, that you obsessively care about. Being excited is a powerful remedy to win over loneliness.
2. Go and explore the beautiful nature around you..
Next time when you feel loneliness, have a brisk walk through the woods or a nearby garden. Explore the beauty of trees, flowers, bees and birds. Keenly observe them and wonder at the mystery of creation.
Feel the cool breeze and the shining rays of sun light filtering through your body. Enjoy the vast blessings of our beautiful nature.
Take time to watch the beautiful sunset and revel in its magnificence. Never miss that window of opportunity that provides instant feelings of re-freshness and peace!
Once in a while at least, visit places that provide breathtaking views that you'll never be able to forget in your life.
Nature's beauty can be the best healer of human loneliness.
3. Be the reason for others happiness!
Instead of seeking others to make a difference in your life, go out and be the one to make a positive difference in others life. Help the needy and be a blessing for them. The happiness that results from doing so is beyond what we could ever imagine.
Helping someone who is less fortunate than you will bring more happiness and Joy into your life.
If you make someone else's day beautiful, then God will make your day much more beautiful.
From now on, never get disappointed because of the feelings of loneliness. You may feel loneliness as something negative, but the truth is loneliness helps you discover who you are.
We don’t always know what we want, but we sure know what we don’t want. Stop doing or thinking about what you don’t want, and move on...Because the moments we miss never comes back again. So be grateful for the fact that you're alive and be sure to enjoy each moment in joy and pure bliss.
Have a great day.
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